What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence, without a standard form and established result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, delighted state of being. The effect is often a wonderful physical, mental well-being. Normally, the receiver is extremely unwinded, splendidly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Most touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. It is not the technique or the wanted sequence of massaging that is important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take an extremely surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
Ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We knew it for a long time, of course, however considering that the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries beforehand
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is likewise essential (check out the article on securing boundaries. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders beforehand: about psychological limits, and likewise take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. Likewise, in addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, but you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with respect for (mutual) limits. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a terrific physical, mental wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually great, often delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to totally enjoy getting ánd offering a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at pleasure complete satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (aimed at healing).
Well since you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however treatment is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however also mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need complimentary, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, check over here and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) moments.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect boundaries, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. However, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can come up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. pleasure noises) and offer combination moments (just doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you may become not only cheerful however even blissful. A delighted state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the much better you will feel.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Complete of attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).